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The Council of Women Religious

Minutes for Meeting on November 11, 2004

Attendance: Srs. Barbara Marie Cady, Joan Jurski, Mary Therese Brown,

                          Joanna Walsh, Margaret Gallagher, Mary Jean Korejwo

Excused: Srs. Mary Ann Czaja, Marilyn Winter

 

 A. Opening Prayer lead by Sr. Joanna

 B. Minutes … approved with a spelling change

 C. Meeting with Msgr. Mike Shugrue …Sr. Barbara Marie will get more

      information on this group we have been invited to be part of and we

      will send out a special email when the information is available.

 D. Enrichment Day Discussion…

      Very positive response from all who attended.

      Many who come, come because WE sponsor it and they know it

         will be good. “NAME” of presenter is not necessarily the draw.

      Those who attended find these events very helpful to them and

         their spiritual growth.

      

      Enrichment Day Expenses…

          Budget amount: $1500

          Income from Registration: $585

          Expenses: Speaker Stipend and Travel and Food…$1077.40

 

      Conclusion:

                    The Enrichment Day and the Jubilee celebration are ways

          for us to be in-touch with each other and the greater community

          of women; so we believe it is important to keep both of these

          events on the Diocesan Calendar.

                     We will keep the Enrichment Day as part of the Council

         enrichment and outreach. Next year’s will be put on the calendar

         as Sept. 27th*. For next year, we hope to do a program using the

         expertise of some of our sisters in the diocese. We have placed

         this on the agenda for the January meeting. If you are willing to do

         a presentation under the umbrella of “Spiritual Enrichment for

         Women” please contact any member of the Council or come and

         join us for the Council Meeting on January 10th. If you would like

         to suggest someone to do a presentation please ask them if they

         are willing and then let us know. At this point, we think that the

         length of a presentation would be 1 ˝ hours either in the morning

         or the afternoon.

           *Diocesan Calendar information now goes to Terry Jackson.

 

 

E. Jubilee Celebration, Feb. 5th, 2005

       Invitations and Program … Sr. Mary Jean

       Liturgy planning … Srs. Mary Margaret and Janet;

                   musicians – Tom McGinnis and the Cathedral 5 o’clock Choir

       Flowers and corsages … Sr. Mary Jean

       Gifts for the Jubilarians … Sr. Mary Therese

       Reception … Leslie Malinowski

       Sacristan … Adam

       Information from Jubilarians for NC Catholic …Sr. Mary Therese

       Publicity … Sr. Joanna

 

F. Peace and Justice issues …. Sr. Joan brought the following to our

      attention(from this point on all program communications from Sr.

      Joan will be sent through the Council mail program in order to

      get them to all the sisters):

         a)Justice Theatre Project .. “Nickel and Dimed” Nov. 13-20

                   www.thejusticetheatrerproject.org

         b) A program is being held Nov. 11th to remember Sr. Evelyn

                 Mattern and her work.

         c) 19th Anniversary of the “People of Faith Against the Death

                 Penalty” Dec. 4th   www.pfadp.org

         d) “A Benefit Concert for AILANTHUS HOUSE” … which provides

                hospitality for people visiting loved ones on death row

                - Nov. 16

 

     Question arose about how “parishes” can get information of programs

within the diocese which are available for their parishioners

to contact when in need of help in their special need. In many diocese

these resources are listed in the diocesan directory.  Sr. Barbara Marie

was asked to raise this issue at the next meeting of the Pastoral Services Staff.

 

G. “Blue Book” … the diocesan directory is being “re-created”. Information

of the sisters will be included in “alphabetical order”, rather than the previous

format. All info was checked through the Council and is accurate “

AS OF 04/11/04.

 

H. Retirement Fund for Religious …25 parishes will have presentations of

the appeal by Women Religious … Srs. Mary Kitty Bethea, Margaret

Holleran, Carmel Hamilton, Mary Therese Brown, Mary Peter Meckle,

Barbara Marie Cady, Mary Catherine Warehime, Maxine Tancraiter,

Theresine Gildea, Edna English, Rita Finnen, Teresa Marry, Margaret

Mary Scally, Anne Heath, Jeanne Morgan, Grace Campbell, Carol

Loughney, Dolly Glick, Margaret Gallagher, Betty Bullen, Kieran Williams,

Mary Agnes Scalero, and Mary Jean Korejwo. 2 deacons will be doing

the presentation in their parish; and Joan Marion will do it at Elizabethtown.

 

I. Sr. Joanna gave us information of a meeting of leaders in religious life,

to take place in Rome in November, 2005.  The working paper for the

meeting can be accessed at www.vidimusdominum.org. The booklet

describes the situation of religious life today in the world … its hopes,

challenges, call for transformation. The title of the working document is:

“With a Passion for Christ and Passion for Humanity.”

 

                                                       Recorded by Sr. Mary Jean, SND

 

J. Following the business part of the meeting, the Council engaged in the

following process …lead by Sr. Joanna.

 

 Notes from our Theological Reflection

about the Council at this time

 

1) What image comes to you spontaneously as regards your recent experience of the Council?

      Phoenix:  rising out of the ashes; shaking ashes off the wings

      Milkweed Pod:  the center is an important source of nourishment

      Energizer Bunny:  gets knocked down, rises again and keeps going; energy for more

      Train that has been derailed:  Where is the train going?

      Moses praying, requiring people to hold up his arms:  tiredness

      A racing car:  moving quickly from one thing to another; scattered

 

2) As you consider your image, what does that tell you about what you value as regards the Council?

-        Intercommunity interaction

-        Intercommunity collaboration

-        Support

-        Working in the Diocese

-        We represent the religious in the Diocese; we are here if they need us

-        Continuing to make sure women (including women religious) have a    voice in this Diocese

 

3) Communal reading of notes from Sr. Janet Ruffing’s recent presentation about religious vocation at the Region One Workshop of the Religious Formation Conference.

Notes taken by Joanna Walsh, fcJ at

Religious Formation Conference

Region One (New England) Workshop

Framingham, MA

October29-30, 2004

 

Talk by Sr. Janet Ruffing, RSM:

A Burning Love Ignited: The Experience of Call in Religious Life

 

The heart of rel life:  a call to welcome love and share it.  Vocation begins in the nature of the human self.  We discover that we are gift, then offer that gift to one another.

 

Last 40 years:  overwhelming change in rel life  (worldview; view of God, etc.)

 

There is little communal (clerics, families) support today for a vocation to religious life, although the very calling is based in and on community.

 

“All of my ancestors were still passing through my life.”  (Poet David Whyte)

         My ancestors are living in me and influencing me in ways I don’t expect!

         When do I experience the Founder/Foundress in me?

         Who are my people?

         To whom do I belong?

 

Our vocation is to become most fully ourselves.  When I serve others out of my real self, I am happy…living from my own desires and capabilities.  God does not ask me to do something beyond my true nature.  Does this life enhance my identity?

Vocation is a purpose for being in the world that is related to the purpose of God.  We are co-creating with God. 

Sometimes we find ourselves in a context where we are told to put on  another face, a more “acceptable” one.

The system can push the true self down: resistance and institutional violence.

 

Do I conspire in my own diminishment?

 

The Ecosystem of our vocation:

My basic reality can only thrive in certain dynamic relationships.

Am I thriving?

Despite the “good” I believe in, can that “good” be done by me?

 

It takes time for the fruit to ripen, and

it has to be in the “right” ecosystem,

a network of mutuality and relationship.

 

All of the institutions that impinge on and structure our lives in North America are in renewal or disintegration.  It is difficult to know which!

Religious life, as a lifeform, is being transformed.

 

How are we falling apart or becoming new?

 

Writers are referring to a “new adulthood” in the West:  person continually re-inventing self  (change of job, ministry, etc.)

Innovate our service according to our gifts.  Every person brings something original and unique into the world. Our primary task is to be ourselves in the world!

Early in our rel life we may not have known who were really were.  We may have confused God’s voice with voices of other authorities in our lives.  We start out on some great mission that we have concocted!  Sometimes we make big mistakes regarding our identity.  It takes courage to move towards a more authentic identity.  We listen to our limits and our mistakes.  Stop trying to live out someone else’s version of your call!

We might change ministry or basic lifestyle to encompass more of who we always were and truly are!  The fruit will fall naturally from the tree without exhausting the roots of the tree!  To offer one’s gifts where they can bear fruit…

Who am I?  Whose am I?

 

Are we welcoming the new gifts to our community

and nurturing them?

 

“The relationships are all taken.”

(Some new members say this. Do seasoned members make space/time to form new relationships with new members?)

 

Janet called upon us to focus on the new rather than on the loss and dying.

The social disintegration might be causing a low grade depression among religious.

Is my focus on the common good

or on my self?

 

She also advised us to consciously participate in the dying for the sake of the future…   (disintegration and renewal)

 

Grief at the service of transformation.

 

Do we see ourselves in a time of diminishment or transformation?

 

4) Where do you sense that God might be leading us as Council?

      - Perhaps being a smaller Council has its advantages

            (communication at meetings easier, etc.)

-        We witness counter-culturally:  smaller is not necessarily worse than bigger!

-        To be a voice in the Diocese for women in general and women

            religious in particular – especially at a time when the

            Diocese will be having a new bishop

-        Those of us on the Council have the energy and desire to have our voice heard

New approaches:

-        Invite certain sisters to a meeting because of their expertise

      in an area of concern.

      -In order to do this, agenda would have to be ready early

            so that guest speaker sisters could be arranged.

      -Perhaps we could meet near that sister’s residence.

      - e.g., “target” certain sisters to invite to the January

                meeting in order to plan the Sept. Enrichment

                Day.

      - Send a reminder to all sisters about this December’s

           Retreat at Avila

      - Remind sisters about the minutes of our meetings

          being available on our website

            www.raleighcouncilofreligious.com

      - when Mary Jean e-mails sisters that the minutes have

            been posted, perhaps she could include some hints of

            what to look for in the minutes (to entice them to go

            the website

       - More news and updates via e-mail

       - We need to find ways for sisters to know who the

            other sisters in the diocese are and what they are

            doing.  Barbara and Joanna will work on this, pro-

            bably by Deanary.

       - Invite sisters to do a “one time” job, e.g. Distribute

            program at Jubilee; registration at Enrichment Day

 

                                                          Joanna Walsh, fcJ.

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